Ryan

Inexpensive Romance

 

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Thanks to the mainstream media, when men think of romance, they think of renting out a fancy 5 star restaurant for just them and their lady, with pricey well-aged wine, and a pianist playing her favorite song. Dinner should be followed by a private jet plane ride  to some secluded beach where they can curl their toes in the sand, watch the sun rise glisten in its array of pink, purple, blue and red hues, and fall further in love. Not to mention the majority of men also believe that if they can not fork out the cash for a scene like that, it somehow exempts them from their romantic duties - isn't that funny ladies? Now, don't get me wrong, that sort of situation sounds great, but men need to realize something that extravagant is not always necessary. There are hundreds of inexpensive ideas to be enticingly enchanting towards your lady, here are a few:

Roof Top Fun:
During a nice summer day, lay out a blanket or two on top of a building's roof. Bring along some snacks, music, and maybe an iPad to watch Netflix from. Give you and your lady a chance to spend some quality time together outside of the house, in a spontaneous place.  It doesn't have to be your building, but if it's not, just don't get caught!

Flowers:
The majority of ladies who are not allergic to flowers would still like to receive them every once in a while. It's not so much about the flowers as it is the gesture. It shows her that she was on your mind enough for you to want to show a bit of appreciation. Make sure to pick out her favorite flowers, because not all women like red roses. Your Queen will surely smile from ear to ear walking into class or work with some fresh flowers from her King!

Night Time Surprise:
You all know that dinner is a daily evening ritual. But you probably didn't know that it can be spiced up by just its presentation alone; set the dinner table with a few candles, dim the lights, dress up for the occasion, prepare and alter the plate to perfection. And if you can't throw down in the kitchen, call a friend who can for help. That's what friends are for, right? Follow dinner with a nice bubble bath for your Queen, and then end the night with a cool oil massage. Her feeling appreciated will just be the beginning...

Carving Names:
If you happen to be taking a stroll with your lady and you spot a beautifully brown tree, go old school and carve your names into it, with a heart around it. If your Queen loves corny things (like me), this will be a definite crowd pleaser!

Dessert:
When was the last time you and your lady went out for some ice cream? If you have a car, take a ride and go get some. Take it to go and park your vehicle somewhere that has the sunset or moon in clear view. Enjoy your dessert inside the car or on the top of it. Enjoy time just talking to her. 

Just Dance:
Cleaning the house? Put some music on and get into it. Take a second off from dusting your PS3 to dance with your Queen. Serenade her by letting her rest her head on your chest, while doing a simple two-step to a smooth R&B tune. 

The simplest things can swoon your lady. And if you're situation doesn't fit the romantic scene(s) above, modify it - easy solution. Snowball off of these ideas and remind your Queen why she fell in love!




P.S. - Extra special thanks to Omari, Lloyd, and Dwayne for the heated debate ;)


                                                        Grae